NSFW: accidental tantric sex?
I recently met someone I really clicked with. When we eventually had sex, like the second time, something different happened. We kind of went into a trance and held eye contact/faces pressed together and kept having sex for a really long time (like hours- I don’t even understand how bodies can do that? Not at all how I normally experience sex.) I felt extremely intense physical and emotional connection despite it being new, and we seemed to transcend the room, then had full-body *event* that I’ve never had. (I’ll spare you the finer details, lol)
Afterwards, we both said we felt like we were having tantric sex, but never had before so weren’t sure. We both meditate a lot and he seems to be able to intuit a lot of my behavior/life experience without me directly telling him, though we have wound up discussing our lives in detail later on.
Does tantric sex always cause this seemingly emotional bond? Or is it possible it’s just me? I’m curious but honestly, also asking to keep myself in check emotionally as this is something new and I don’t want to get overly invested due to the intensity of this experience. He also seems to be feeling the same way, and I do plan to bring it up when I see him this week. (This just happened over the weekend.)
Either way, I’m really excited to have had the experience just as an avid yogi/meditator. It makes me think I’m on the right track with my own practice. Is that possibly true, too?
Thanks for any and all input!