u/NoSwimmer720

Like once a week ? Once every two weeks? Once a month?

Safi khoti I got my answer : never. Tsbho3lakhir

Can someone help? Im litteraly asking for help rn. If you are good for time management and you would be down to help had lmskina let me know. I always make plans and schedules and I don’t follow up cause I try to do too much in too little time.

Ive been having these thoughts for the last few months, I feel like I am tired of people knowing me if that makes sense? and I honestly don’t want to have any deep relationships anymore, because the deeper u go the more problems appear. and I also noticed that in every relationship or friendship i had things are always the best when it’s not deep yet, I want to have superficial interactions, nothing too personal, I developed strong trust issues, and I don’t have the energy to understand someone anymore, I just want to distant myself, delete my socials, and thats it, be alone.

But I HATE loneliness, but I also don’t know how to have a normal fs/rs, how much care to give, how much to share, when to say no, when to compromise, what is too much and what is too little (if it’s too much for me but too little for you, who is in the wrong?) how to make up after arguments or how to HAVE those arguments in the first place. All of this with minimal damage and without having anyone hurt. I don’t know if my feelings and my thoughts are right, if im hurt idk if I have the right to be hurt and react on that, or if im just overreacting, reading too much into it, blabla.