My boyfriend M19 took away my f18 old phone
For context we’ve been dating for 8 months now f18 and m19 and he has an old phone too that he uses for an alarm I’ve gone though that phone before and his regular phone and in the past I have found stuff like his exs private pictures he kept and ss of girls instagram he took while in our relationship I forgave him for that but a month or 2 ago I told him my previous guy friend texted me and I responded and he was obviously upset about that because I had hid it because I was afraid of his reaction and that he’d be mad an accuse me of cheating even though the conversation was completely innocent I should’ve just told him and showed him the text messages instead of deleting them because that made it seem like I was hiding something more well after that he’s continued accusing me of cheating and to help prove my innocence I let him go through my old phone big mistake he went back and went in to my previous backed up photos and found inappropriate pictures of me and my ex from when we were m/f 16, I’m f/18 now but he had saved them and sent them to him self and when I asked why he said to be mad at me he had previously unblocked my ex to go through the saved in chat and saw old pictures we had sent eachother in the relationship when we were 16 I was upset he had saved those pictures i felt like he had taken it too far I asked him to delete them and he said he did but he didn’t and he put them in his my eyes only I went on his phone and changed his my eyes only password and it deleted everything that was in there but I’m still afraid he has those pictures and on top of that I tried to change my phone password but for the first 24 hours the old password can be used to unlock it so he got in it and changed the password and now I can’t get in to my own phone and he also locked it in his safe so I can’t get to it on top of that last night I went to go see my friend who just had a baby and he gave me attitude about it I genuinely don’t know what to do anymore this feels too controlling. Am i insane for thinking that? Is this relationship too toxic?