Co-workers planning a hangout without me
Five of my coworkers who I have hanged out with before are planning a hang out without me. We are in the same department so I have heard bits and pieces of their plans here and there. They don't have a full blown discussion infront of me.
At first I thought it was a couple thing but they've also asked the colleague who is also single either than me.
There's a chance they didn't ask me because I live more than a hour away from where they all live but I would have appreciated it if they asked me despite knowing the answer would be no just to make me feel included.
Right now I'm not part of any conversation and the fact they are hiding the plan from me hurts me the most.
I don't know if what they are doing is reasonable or not but I have no idea how I should react to the situation at work.