Dad, I (27F) need advice about a guy (56M)
So I (27F) met this guy (56M) in a game around January, we started talking in February.
He is really kind, patient, caring, very open with his emotions and feelings for me. Since near the beginning he said he felt a connection to me. I didn’t really understand why because he hardly knew me. He said he admires my kindness, how I’m always looking out for my teammates in game. He believes in soulmates, senses auras and spirits, so I assumed he feels things differently on another level.
He told me he loves me, wants to be with me, thinks I’m his soulmate. I can’t because of my faith and he accepted that even though he still messaged me now and then when I said I couldn’t be friends. But after a while he said he wanted to convert, that he believes too. I asked if he would still believe if I didn’t choose to be with him in the end, and he said yes.
He is really sweet, caring, doesn’t get mad, understanding, accepting, wants to support me in all of my problems and I like that, I never had that before, but it’s hard for me to know what I feel when I never met him.
I’ve never been with anyone before so I don’t know if this is healthy, if his love is real. I’m afraid of being hurt and I don’t have the experience or healthy male role models to look to.