AITAH for not going to New York with my mom with breast cancer?
I know the title is shocking, but please read. So my mom asked me to go to new york with our family and I said yes. Im the the type of person to post about everything and take photos, and I needed someone to help me and take pictures together so, I asked if my friend ”A” Could come. My mom said yes but I was still skeptical and double checked and asked her if she could come, she said yes again. Now, my mom’s diagnosis is stage 0 so it’s very small but she still wants to spend time with us. I’m not saying this to look like a good guy so disregard if you want. Fast forward 1 day before the trip and she’s panicking about room. At this point I've already told ”A” and she’s packed and ready to come over. My mom comes home from treatment and says, “I don’t want to go anymore.” So I tell ”A” nevermind, stop packing, and stopped washing my clothes for the trip. The morning comes and my brother and his girlfriend come to my house which is weird because I thought we weren’t going??? They start packing and my mom and brother look at me crazy when I said I’m not going. I’m hurt because my mom put me in this position and expects me to just lie to my friend and not post on social media. I’m not a good liar and I have her and her friends on like all my social media. Im also not packed or ready at all. I still have much packing and washing to do so I told her I’m sorry and that I can’t go. AITAH?