Farewell holiday trip
Hi guys. This monday i found out a hard truth. Wife had an affair with some long past ex. Details don't matter here. I deeply and truely love her and our family of 2 kids. Age 4 and 6. We have been married for only 1 year. So it came very unexpected.
This saturday we will inform our kids of the breakup and guide them as good as we can. We will do this together as it should.
The advice i need: We had planned a family holiday(plane trip) that ought to begin in 3weeks and takes 2 weeks. My soon to be ex wife really wants to continue with the trip. To show our kids that we are still mom and dad and grant them this trip as last memory of our family. She claims she will stop communicating with the "other" guy and be 100% present on the trip.
I'm not sure if i'm emotionally stable enough to handle that kind of trip tbh. I'll probably know in a few weeks. I doubt we will have any fights on the trip for i no longer feel the need to fight. It might help us co exist better after the divorce.
Do you guys think this is a good or bad idea? Anyone else done this? Im getting mixed reactions from friends and family.