[34F] Why can’t things end platonically?? [30m]
I’ve posted on here before. Me (34f) and my best friend with benefits (30m), ended our hooking up a few months ago. He ghosted me for a time and then apologized and said he found someone he wanted to be serious with. Ok. Cool. Whatever.
But why does that mean he has to cut me off completely????
I messaged saying I saw his doppelgänger at a grocery store and hoped he was doing well- to which he said his brother is actually in the state. I asked for a picture of brother. No response. Whatever.
I used to buy pot off him. Thought surely that’s ok to ask of him. He saw my message and no response.
Why is he trying to cut me out completely if we were always just friends with benefits? How come I can be civil and platonic and he needs space?
I hate that it makes me question how he saw us. Like did our friendship mean nothing to him???? For 2 fucking years we were friends and now I’m nothing.
I don’t like how hurt I am by him choosing to cut me out completely. I’ve always told him I am a girl with many platonic guy friends and to remember that I’m his friend first and sex is just a BENEFIT.
I have nobody to talk to about this so I would love any male insight on what might be going on with him.