Considering leaving my 10 month old for my bachelorette party
So, I have a 2 year old and a soon to be 10 month old who is ebf. My fiancé (and father of my girls) are getting married and planning our bachelor/bachelorette parties.
I have planned mine around bringing my youngest. I said only one night away, and not too far… because I haven’t been away from my 2 year old that long either.
My fiancé really wants me to leave both girls with him so I can enjoy myself, but it makes me extremely anxious just thinking about it.
He said he would ask my mom to come over and help with night time because I can barely handle bedtimes on my own, and that makes me feel a bit better.
By the time the weekend rolls around my youngest will be 11 months, and she eats solids great and sleeps mostly through the night. The only thing is I nurse her to sleep every night.
Am I overthinking this? One night away doesn’t seem horrible but I feel like a bad mom for leaving my breastfeeding baby for 2 days. Which I would never say about anyone else but for me it feels bad.
Would love to hear others opinions! Thank you for reading!