is it normal for a marine in the feild not to text
I met this guys a month ago and he told me he wanted something serious. We went on a date and hooked up and went on another and hooked up again. He told me he liked me and I told him back.
Then he has been lagging for about two weeks. Keep in mind he told me he wanted something serious and I agreed to try. He tells me he’s on the field and went days without texting me. I texted him and called and he answered telling me that he was short listed and selected to be deployed and he hasn’t been feeling good.
Then he got went to the field for 4 days and he texted me on the second day bc I sent him one text each day. I haven’t texted for like 2 days and I’m getting anxious based of some comments of an acquaintance I have making some comments of not being able to be be no contact for so long.
I try to calm myself down bc for the dates we have gone one he’s drive an hour to see me and I have meaningful items of his. However he does tell me he’ll call me later and then I don’t hear from him. I decided to not text him bc I want to feel desired and not like I’m being for attention.
Sometimes I feel his lack of communication is him truly being busy and other times I worry that he is playing me.