What's the next step?
Hey guys👋🏼 I need yall's input in this situation.
I'm a 21M in a relationship with a 23M. So recently my partner has been acting weirdly towards me. I asked him abt this and he told me that sb had told him that I was cheating on him with them. His response to this person, let's call him person X was sth in the lines of (you can have him, I'm out✌🏼) My bf then asked me abt it and I told him that I haven't been with any other person other than him. I reassured him that I'm not cheating and we became fine. Yesterday when I was checking up on him, he says he's not fine which naturally prompts me to ask him abt it. He takes hours to reply, on IG, he was online an hr ago. So I text him on WhatsApp telling him that ik he's online. He still takes more hrs to reply. He finally replies saying it's nothing. I got so agitated and annoyed because why would you tell me you're not ok and when I ask abt it you tell me you're fine....like what is this? Hours pass by, he tells me again he's stressed and I ask him what's stressing him. He tells me he'd rather not talk abt it atm. I respect this, i ask him if he'll tell me tomorrow to which he says it's ok. So we find sth else to talk abt. He sends a vn telling me person X has approached him again with accusations involving me. I ask him what are the accusations and who is this person X.....nothing
He doesn't tell me shit. He tells me it looks like this person knows you so I get spooked because wth....I ask him who he is, no reply.
What do you guys suggest i should do?
Edit: I talked to him abt hiding that piece of info from me and he simply said that it shouldn't be a matter of concern. He claims that he has blocked person x because as he claims this person has negative energy. I tried telling him why this info is important to me (it will enable me reevaluate the people I consider close or who I let close to me should it be this person X is amongst them) He adamantly refused. We ended the convo with tension. My last text was "Mahn I don't understand you at times" to which he replied "it's ok" He sent me a reel today morning saying I'll to which I hearted the reel. (I did so for him to know I still love him i just need my time) he told me "morning" on IG, I didn't reply. Few hrs later he sends 2 view once pics on whatsapp saying i should open alone (he fucking sent me nudes😭) like can you not read the room!? I never responded till now.