First time here 31F
First time posting in this sub! It’s honestly not something I’d usually do, but I figured I’d love to give it a try.
About Me:
I am a 31-year-old female living in Salé and working a government job in Rabat (though I'm thinking of eventually moving to Rabat). I am also currently working toward my PhD.
I’m looking for someone who is serious and wants to settle down. I wear a hijab and consider myself religious, but my friends often tell me my personality is a bit "too wild" for someone who wears one.
When it comes to hobbies, I love movies and series, and I occasionally dabble in anime if there’s a good recommendation.
I enjoy trying different activities and am pretty open to anything.
Physically, I’m 155 cm—not skinny, but not overweight, so height/size isn't really an issue. (Also, I am often told I look wayy younger than my age, maybe it's the height ?)
I don't mind younger guys, but not too young; since my ultimate goal is marriage, I want to be mindful of what our families would think.
What I'm Looking For:
I need someone who can match me intellectually. I love intellectual discussions and staying updated on scientific topics, new discoveries, and current events.
In terms of appearance, I don't have strict requirements—ghir lwa7ed ikoun kithella frassou. I value independence and absolutely love men who communicate and are open to real conversation. I don't play mind games, and I expect the same in return.
A few important things to note since we are talking about marriage:
Kids: I am not currently thinking about having children because I have many goals I would like to achieve first (Career, Travel, etc.)
Gender Roles: I don’t fit into traditional gender roles. I believe we should cook, clean, split chores, and handle expenses together.
Dates: Dates, however, are on you.
Perspective on Marriage: I don’t view marriage with rigid, traditional solemnity; in my opinion, it’s essentially a halal relationship, ou safi.
Social Media: I barely use it.
I think that covers everything, but please don't hesitate to reach out and ask questions if you have any!
PS: I used Chat GPT to clean up my text since my english is not usually this clean.
Edit 1 : I am updating a few expressions that sound too harsh.
Edit 2 : Traditional gender roles are typically defined as: Women: Cook and clean. Men: Pay for everything. What I want instead: We split everything. Romantic gestures, however, are an exception. They are unrelated to traditional gender roles; instead, they are about showing appreciation and care. Think of it like inviting your parents out to dinner or paying for their vacation. Are your parents exploiting you just because you treated them? No. You are simply showing them your appreciation and love. The same logic applies to a relationship. But, you never know, I could be wrong. That is just how I view things.