u/Normal_Beginning1560

i am newly diagnosed (about a month in) and i had sex a few days ago (protected) but didn’t do anything oral out of confusion. so can someone go down on me without a dental dam and be fine? pls lmk, thanks!! also i will not be seeing that partner again bc he said he would “never talk to me again” and “be very angry at me” if he contracted herpes from me. like bruh chill…. i understand the concern but people are so rude about it half the time i disclose. i’ve been called many names and offensive words since my diagnosis upon disclosure. how do yall move on after being called a wh*re and sl*t after disclosing?????