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Da li moze neko da mi preporuci dobrog ginekologa u Novom Sadu? Kakvi su doktori u poliklinici Regena? Za standardni pregled i da se dobro razume u kolposkopiju.

I just have a really bad feeling about my mom’s side of the family. The whole story is just… weird.
My grandparents are very religious and always go to church. They had three daughters when they were very young, and my grandma was only 16 when she had my mom. My great-grandma once told me she used to put a pillow over my mom’s face because she cried so much. Obviously, nothing happened to her, but it’s still a disturbing thing to hear.
My mom and her younger sister always felt like my grandparents favored their middle daughter. She always seemed to get everything. She’s nice to us and seems like a good person, but she’s also pretty selfish and always made sure she got what she wanted. I’d compare her to Mr. Krabs
Then my mom suddenly died of cancer. Three years later, my youngest aunt also died of a different type of cancer. Now the middle daughter—the “favorite”—is the only one left.
And she and her kids are also going to inherit almost everything from my grandparents, while the children of their other two daughters ( me and my other cousins) are basically getting nothing except a small piece of land.
I know this might sound crazy, but doesn’t the whole situation seem a little strange? They’ve always acted very nice toward us and like they love us, but something about this family has always felt… off.

Vec dve godine imam ovo, s tim da mi je prosle godine bilo relativno dobro. Kako je pocela ova godina meni nedelju dana bude okej i onda opet “pukne” pa se nedelju dana mucim i prodje. Bila sam i kod proktologa koji mi je samo dao kremu anestezin i preporucio tople kupke sto mi naravno nikako ne pomaze vec se i pogorsalo. Da li je operacija jedino resenje za analnu fisuru ili je neko uspeo da je izleci bez i ako jeste molim vas za savet. Moze i preporuka lekara. Sto se ishrane tice, jedem i vlakna i corbe i hidriram se.

Upravo sam procitala u vestima kako majka malog monstruma koji je ucestvovao u zlostavljanju decaka u jednoj skoli izjavila da ako neko spomene njenog sina da ce zavrsiti na sudu. Toliko cesto cujem primere da roditelji ne prihvataju da imaju problematicno dete i misle za svoje dete da je najpametnije i najbolje. Nekako mi to ne ide u glavu. Nemam dete jos uvek, ali ako me nastavnik pozove i obavesti da je moje dete nesto lose uradilo, ne bih ga branila vec kaznila. Zasto roditelji toliko brane svoju nestasnu i nevaspitanu decu?