My mom requires my location to live with her
I’m a 31 year old woman who lives with my mom to pay off debt and tuition. The job market is rough and this makes my life mostly easier, except for the fact that she requires my location to stay with her. It’s been this way since I was a teenager. When I was younger, she put a tracking device on my car. No surprise, I’m not the most mentally stable person because of this. I feel like a child being in this situation, but am trying not to lose my cool as I plan to move out quietly soon.
When I lived in New York 2021, I would periodically turn off my location, and she’d freak out on me. Blew up my phone, nonstop texts, and threatened to call the police. When I didn’t reply right away, she’d make crazy claims- one being that my brother’s dog (who we raised together) had died.. he didn’t. It’s wild to me that I’m even living with her again, but I’m hoping it won’t be too much longer. Nothing has specifically blown up recently, I’m just feeling a lot of resentment. As you could imagine, requiring my location is just the tip of the iceberg, but I don’t want to overwhelm this post.