And now essentially EVERY profile I want to message requires I pay for a "Super Note," even in the Discovery queue. So at this point I have no idea why I pay for a monthly membership, since it doesn't give me anything; without Super Notes, I cannot contact anyone.
So in the Discovery tab, I can "like" someone without paying for the dumb Super Likes.
However, sometimes - and there is NO indication of why - such likes cannot be sent a message without also buying Super Notes. (I'm a paying user by the way.) But sometimes a regular message goes through. And of course, until the match is reciprocated, I've no idea what super note did get through or not, or if a regular message got through, since sometimes it lets my type a regular message and THEN sends me to the "buy some super notes" screen without stating if the message was sent.
Can someone explain this nonsense?