u/Novel-Tip-7570

Literally nothing else matters. You can be a single mom, a total hoe or whatever and still get a quality guy as long as you're attractive. Just look at Kylie Jenner , a single mom, in a serious relationship with Timothy Chalamet, a top 0.1% man. Look at Alex Cooper, a proud slut, who's married and pregnant. Anyone who thinks they'll get a man by being a "good, church girl who submits and obeys" is delusional. If you're like this you'll probably only attract weird men who have some kind of anti-woman complex.

It's amazing how many men are baffled that they're not a priority anymore after kids. I've seen it so many times. Basically men want kids more than women but as soon as they have a kid, they change their tune and start complaining about not being a priority anymore. Sorry, unless you're in the top 0.1% of men, a woman will always, always prioritize her kids. You will be seen as childish and immature if you want sex more than once a week because there's not enough time anymore. Once a week is actually the optimistic scenario. If you want to have hobbies that are not about the kids, you will be seen as childish and immature. I'm just laying down the facts here.

If you can't accept this then either become a 0.1% man or don't have kids. Find a childfree woman or a divorced woman with adult kids.