My bf does this the day before my bd
my bf (22m) me (18f) I will be 19 tomorrow! And my bf does this the day before my birthday.
Contex: he used to get mad at me for me going to the store so this is why I’m saying like are you mad because I feel like every time I leave the house even when I’m with my parents he used to get mad at me that I left my house. And idk if you can tell but he was just faking being mad to prove something idk if that’s not obvious it’s on 8-9. And a week ago he got mad at me for wanting to go see my parents: I was talking to my boyfriend about going to Wisconsin for two weeks to go see my mom and he kind of freaked out and was like but what about your job and I kept telling him it’s fine stop talking about my job. And he kept doing it so I told him I feel like you’re just thinking of yourself at this point and that you don’t want me to go to Wisconsin to see my mom. Fast forward to today when he starts to blame me and says, but you do this and that to me. a lot of the times he tells me his feelings in the way of disrespect being mean yelling at me hanging up on me so then obviously no I’m not being very nice about whatever he’s feeling because he’s yelling at me telling me I do this and I hate this about you not in the way of baby I just feel like you’re doing this and it’s making me really upset. So obviously when he’s doing that to me, I’m defending myself and I’m not helping him, but I’m still remaining very calm Very nice trying to get him to calm down, but I’m not helping him with his feelings. Also, when I said maybe before in the beginning of our relationship every single day I would see him he would bring up cheating in some form of way and after a year of that, I got very upset at him and I told him that he need to stop bringing up cheating because it’s almost like he wants me to cheat on him and no, I was not very nice when he was telling me his feelings about cheating. I’ve never cheated. I don’t have any friends because of him. I don’t leave the house because of him like I am the least likely person to cheat. Anyway here is the convo.