[M55] Having an involuntary thruple with SnapChat
Married for over 30 years and overall things are good. There have been some issues in the past with hubby having a personal online life involving chatting with guys and sharing pics, vids etc. with each other. We have had some counseling over this and set some ground rules about it. The two primary ones are that he cannot spend all his sexual energy on sharing/chatting/jerking with these "friends" ; he needs to save some for us. The second is that he cannot do it when we are in the house together. I don't love he does this but also understand everybody expresses their sexuality differently and find different things a turn on so I'm trying to allow him that.
Lately, he's been breaking number two. This morning, I walked into the bedroom to find him taking a dick pic. This isn't the first time this has happened lately. I didn't say anything and just left. I'm trying to process how I feel about this but overall it makes me feel like he's not interested in me anymore and also that he doesn't respect me enough to honor the deal we made. I guess I find it hurtful.
I'm going to talk to him about it but looking for a sounding board here. Is what I'm asking reasonable or am I making a big deal out of nothing? All our friends are mutual friends and I really don't want to talk about this with them.
Thanks for listing.