u/Odd-Associations — reddlx

Facial hair and chest changes (post top surgery) off T

I know sometimes people snap up photos to post elsewhere so I've covered things up a little lol. I did T every 3 months last shot sept 24.

With the facial hair each of those is a couple days of growth, the hair lightened, and it grows slower, but I do still grow a full beard, it's just hella red and blonde now.

With the top surgery, I had keyhole, there is some fat redistribution there but it’s in a weird uneven manner.

u/Odd-Associations — 3 days ago

▲ 498 r/detrans

The fantasy of transitioning from depressed and ugly to happy and attractive

I came across this meme and it very much embodies the lies I was sold. Being an unhappy and unattractive masculine woman transition promised happiness and attractiveness/finally being okay with how I looked.

Trans men would talk about how being a tomboy was actually a sign that they were trans, they'd talk about how much they struggled with their mental health and how much better life became after transition. Listening to trans men talk about what makes them a man/ how they knew they were trans remains the same as me but now I know that being a tomboy doesn't make you boy, not fitting in with other girls is a normal autistic experience and all those other "this is how I knew I was trans" are just things connected to me being a masculine female with mental health issues.

Most irl trans people I've met have been very mentally people, trans women tend to look like men with long hair and trans men like women with PCOS. Yeah, some people pass and some people can go stealth but I don't think that's the most common outcome.

u/Odd-Associations — 12 days ago

▲ 360 r/detrans

Trans folks DMing me for making post here

I really fucking hate having trans people view my content here and then try and debate me in my DM.

Most of the time they want me to debate them, and I just don't care for their bullshit.

Detransition has been a massive struggle for me, I don't want to deal with stupid "umm actually intersex people exist!" type comments, I just want to process the trauma of transition, process the lies, and the abuse pushed by the trans community in the name of progressiveness.

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u/Odd-Associations — 14 days ago

▲ 154 r/detrans

Embracing biological sex and being sick of people using "female or male" to describe their gender identity.

As I work through my mental health shit and I come to terms with being female I become more and more pissed off at trans women claiming to be female, claiming that hormones made them more female than male.

I don't have an issue with trans woman calling themself woman but when they use the term female it pisses me off.

The trans community used to always claim that "I'm not claiming to be the opposite sex, I'm just a different gender" so why do I constantly see trans woman claiming that they are actually biologically female because they had all the surgeries? When did things get so delusional?

People are constantly using intersex people as a got ya moment "sex can't be defined without excluding people" is a bullshit argument.

Accepting that you're biologically female or male and you can't change your sex is one of the most basic steps in managing your gender dysphoria. If you're not rooted in reality you're prob not going to be happy when you've had all the surgeries possible and you're still stuck being unable to change your sex.

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u/Odd-Associations — 15 days ago