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I got out of surgery today and I'm feeling tired - my friends want to go out to dinner tomorrow but I'm not sure. What was your recovery like, esp beyond the first day?

Hi all!

Have any other hypermobile women frozen their eggs? Did it affect your symptoms? I also have vestibulodynia - if anyone has that combination, would love to hear from you!

Hi all!

I'm wanting to read "Come As You Are" by Dr. Emily Nagoski, but I'm worried that it might trigger me if it doesn't mention anything about sexual pain.

Has anyone benefitted from reading it?

Hi all!

I am newly in NYC and am looking to strength train with a personal trainer or participate in Pilates classes while I'm here. Does anyone have any recommendations?

For those who were diagnosed before they met their partner, how did you go about dating/sharing with them? How early in did you tell them?

For context I'm able to have penetrative sex somewhat pain free, just not for a long period of time or in certain positions, so I haven't ever told a partner that I've had it and I'm wanting to have that conversation - but I've also never been able to orgasm with a partner which I know probably has something to do with not being able to share my diagnosis.

If you are the partner of someone with vestibulodynia, would love to hear from you as well!