Permanently Banned from Hinge
Went on a date this past weekend with a girl and it didn’t go entirely well but I thought no worries. I had been wanting to kind of call off the second date but she seemed really excited so I obliged. On date #2 -Out of nowhere, she flips a switch (has anxiety and BPD) and started having a meltdown. Saying I was “too good for her and XYZ” and said she’s “having an episode that has nothing to do with me yada yada” I consoled her for like 3 hours saying everything was okay and she just kept profusely apologizing to me. She left and I just said “hey hope you made it home alright and are feeling better.” Went out to the bar by myself later. Got no response (didn’t think anything of it). Next day I get notifications/matches on hinge and go to open it up and I see that I’m banned. And she also blocked me on ig. I think she was just genuinely embarrassed and/or perhaps jealous because she knew I had several other hinge dates planned.
Either way - don’t know why I was banned. Wasted my appeal because I just responded to hinge “I don’t know why I’m banned” and immediately got hit with the permanent ban. Won’t tell me what I did wrong and I just don’t even know where to go in the appealing process or if it’s even worth it. Im wondering if she blocked me on hinge and said some stuff to make me look bad IRL. If that’s the case - how do you even go about appealing that? I know I’ve never done/said anything bad in the app nor in real life. But if someone tries to report you for a bad date- how would you appeal that ? Because quite frankly, I now know this chick is crazy and I’m weirdly concerned. I’ve been deemed guilty without a fair trial 😂 but this lowkey kind of sucks in a way my brain is having a hard time comprehending
Sorry for the long post. I’m just confused. and there’s this giant ball of spaghetti in my coconut that I’m trying to unravel and make sense of