My fiance wants a prenup but won't tell me what he wants to put in it
My fiance and I have been talking about getting a prenup and I've made it pretty clear that I'm not against the idea. I think it makes sense for us to have something in place especially since we both have our own savings and investments. The issue is that whenever I try to have an actual conversation about what we'd want included he just says we should wait until we hire lawyers and figure everything out with them. I've tried asking him more specific questions about things like future income, property, and such, but I keep getting the same answer.
I understand that lawyers are supposed to guide us through the legal side of things but shouldn't we at least have some idea of what we both want before getting them involved? It feels weird to me that we're supposedly on the same page about getting a prenup but haven't discussed any of the terms so am I overthinking this? Did you and your partner figure out what you wanted beforehand or did you go into the first consultations without much of a plan?