These kittens and their momma just moved in under our deck. I don't want feral cats in our yard and would love advice on what to do. Are the kittens old enough to trap and hopefully socialize?? Posting from Michigan
I'm struggling to process my grief and I'm not sure who to talk to about it so I'm talking into the void that is the internet.
First off I'm not great at friendship. I don't maintain friendships well, I constantly worry I'm bothering people if I ask them to hang out. Also, during medical school and residency I didn't have time to maintain friendships because I was studying and working so much.
I had one best friend. We met when we were three. We were always friends, and when we went without seeing each other we picked up like nothing had changed. Our lives took different paths and I hadn't seen her in a few years. Watching my daughter grow and play makes me think if her constantly and I looked forward to introducing her. I reached out last year to make plans and she canceled at the last minute. I didn't badger to reschedule because I never want to bother, then she died unexpectedly this year and I am so sad. I feel like it's hard to explain to people because it had been so long since we'd seen each other but I just keep getting hit with waves of guilt and wishing I could talk with her.
She was such a wonderful person. I miss her terribly.