Baby Daddy Got Married and It Made Me Laugh
For context, my daughter’s father was an abusive, narcissistic asshole. Was with him for three years (left him about 4 years ago) and my family finally pulled me out of it because he started throwing around my 60lb dog (he’s fine and healthy now).
I love my step mom to death, but she keeps updating me on him though-I don’t care. She told me the other day he got married. I was sad, but because I was jealous, or because I wanted him back, but because he got something I wanted so bad and much more.
But then the thought dawned on me….the only reason that mf got married is because he’s undocumented and ICE 100% would have came after him. I was no longer sad, I was laughing my ass off and the relief I felt was immaculate….hope who he married is okay because me and A LOT of his exes all experienced the same abuse.
At the end of that pity party I picked myself right back and reminded myself I’m still a bad bitch, and continued being the mom my daughter deserves💅.
I need to tell my step mom to stop though because every time she updates me, I kind of spiral because I’m still moving on.