Co-sleeping with 2 under 2?
Hello everyone,
I currently have a 19mo and expecting to give birth in a month.
Since my son turned 1, he started sleeping in the bed with us (or just me when husband is working). He is so used to me in bed now, he sleeps very well he does wake up but he only touches my hair and falls back asleep quickly.
I am worried will co-sleeping be sustainable when the baby comes? The baby will be sleeping in his own bassinet close to my bed but he will be nursing in the bed. I’m scared that my toddler will be turning around and hitting the baby by accident.
We got him a bed right next to ours (on husband’s side) literally connected, but he just won’t get in. Last night I put him to sleep in his bed and as soon as he first woke up, my husband put him in our bed and wouldn’t let me put him back in his because he is waking him up more that way🙄 he is so not helping. He said we should take baby steps by not just shocking him with his own bed at once, but I know actually he just cares about getting more sleep himself
Does anyone have any advice or experience to share how to best handle this situation?
PS: his own bedroom is not an option since we don’t have a spare bedroom.