u/OhMyNeptune22

Wanting to support my partner best I can as I’m new to Poly

Hey guys! First, I wanna say I’ve been a lurker here since I started my poly journey about 10 months ago. Originally a person who was open, I met my partner who had been Poly for 4 years. Admittedly, hesitant, but curious, I went into it doing my research and loving and with the help of this subreddit I have been able to be successful! This will be his first possible relationship since me after his previous break ups before me. We love each other dearly, I believe he is a life partner. What I want to know as someone new to Poly in regards to supporting another person possibly seeking someone else is what do I need to do to support? So I give my opinion? Do I give him the confidence of trust and wish him the best with his actions with another person? I’ve asked him and he has said just believe in him. I think I worry sometimes that I want to support him cause he has a lot of self confidence issues, but I think I’m maybe disrespecting him if I do speak my mind out of concern. I want him to be happy and I just wanna know what my role should be. Thank you all so much!

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u/OhMyNeptune22 — 4 hours ago