u/Ok-Amphibian-2000

I recently cut off my sibling after decades of abuse (physical and verbal), and my parents are incredibly sad about it.

I love my parents, but their advice for me is always "just let it go, the past is in the past" when really a lot of her abuse was super recent and the wounds are still fresh.

It's so frustrating and I feel so gaslit by everyone. I'm frustrated at my sibling for think that SHE is the one that cut ME off because I'M the abusive one. And I'm frustrated at my parents for minimizing the whole thing. I'm frustrated at my friends for saying "but she's your sister, you love her!"

How do I navigate this?

I've never had pho and really really wanna try it. Anyone have recommendations for the best vegan or vegetarian pho in the city?