we have been married for close to 30 years, our sex life hasnt been the greatest but over all she is a good wife and mother. For the last few years she has been going through menopause which makes our sex life non existant. But lately I have found that is she obsessed with her phone. She is always on it, even late at night when I am in bed, she even takes it with her in the bathroom. She has recently been discussing hormone treatments to increase her libito, she has also been interested in psychedelics and trying those along with some over the counter aphrodisiacs (if thats a thing??) Thoughts? Am I over thinking this ?

we have been married for close to 30 years, our sex life hasnt been the greatest but over all she is a good wife and mother. For the last few years she has been going through menopause which makes our sex life non existant. But lately I have found that is she obsessed with her phone. She is always on it, even late at night when I am in bed, she even takes it with her in the bathroom. She has recently been discussing hormone treatments to increase her libito, she has also been interested in psychedelics and trying those along with some over the counter aphrodisiacs (if thats a thing??) Thoughts? Am I over thinking this ?