Girl's cousin asking for my payslip,marksheets & aadhar card
Hi, I am 29 M Software Engineer earning 29.5 LPA and I have been talking to a girl for about a month. Its a typical arrange marriage process where I only had a chance to meet her with family but we have been in touch over calls for the past month.
Yesterday I got a call from girl's cousin brother who is asking for my salary slip, Aadhar card, 10th marksheet and graduation marksheet.
I could have understood till the salary slip and already shared that to him but other things seems so weird and unreasonable to me.
I spoke to her and she said she is ready to share hers as well and was telling that her brother wants to verify maybe my DOB and If I am graduated. I feel like why would my company give me an engineer's job without me being graduated ?
Then later her father told my father that they want to see our other houses too . For context they have already visited our house once.
I don't know if I am thinking too much but all this seems very unreasonable to me. Am I thinking too much or is this common in this process ?