u/Ok-Freedom5846

So I’m 20(F) and I’ve been talking to a 22(M) for the last 3–4 months. Everything was going okay until a few days ago when we had an argument because I couldn’t attend his calls since I was at work. After that, there was no message or call between us for almost 24 hours.

The next evening, he called and said he was upset because I wasn’t answering his calls. That annoyed me because he himself disappears for 2–3 days sometimes, and I never react like that. I just didn’t answer for a few hours because I was busy working.

I was already upset because of an Instagram story he posted with a girl. He was holding her waist with a romantic song in the background. At first he said it was an AI picture, but later it turned out she was actually his female friend. So during the argument I told him, “Don’t get angry at me, go talk to your girlfriend instead,” and I cut the call.

After that, I expected him to call back, ask what happened, clear the misunderstanding, or at least try to solve things. But there was nothing. Hours later he only sent one message saying, “Tum aisa bologe toh main kya bolu,” and after that again no call, no message.

All I wanted was a little reassurance and some care.

Whenever he gets upset, I try a thousand times to make things okay, but this time he didn’t even ask me once if I was fine or why I was hurt. That’s what disappointed me the most.

We’re still technically in the talking stage, and I do like him, and I think he likes me too, but now I’m starting to wonder if it’s real feelings or just attachment and timepass for him.

So I am 20(F) and have been talking with 22(M) for the last 3-4 months. So everything was okay. But a few days before we had an argument that I wasn't able to attend his calls cause I was at work. No message or call in between 24 hours The next day in the evening he called and said I was angry cause you were not answering your calls and all in reverse I got mad at him i said you also disappeared for 2-3 days i never questioned you get mad like this, I just didn't answer for for few hours and you get mad like this I was already mad because of this story on insta with a girl and his, he was grabbing her waist and he put very romantic song on that it's was AI picture but still turns out it's was his female friend . So I said don't get angry at me go to your gf and I cut the call, so any person will call back try to ask or solve this misunderstanding or whatever no message no call after hours one message 'tum aisa bologe tho mai kya bolu' after this no message no call

All I wanted was reassurance some care

When he gets mad I ask him a thousand times and he didn't even ask me one time

I am so disappointed maybe i should stop expecting anything

We both were on the talking stage I like him and the same goes for him but now think it's just fake or just attachments or timepass to him

Is it just me or every app or website is going down. I am so frustrated, just in the afternoon i found a new website and now it is down whyyyy? 😭😭😭