Curious as to the take of young agents and Madonna. Do you care about confessions 2? Do you know what she has contributed to pop music and more importantly the LGBTQ community. I’m curious coming from an elder millennial.
Just a little rant. Does anyone else think that they should do the Ru girls meet and greet before or after starry night? Like I get having the crowd as a background but we get there early to get a good spot and wait hours just watching their backs towards us. And then by time the show starts you have like an hour of political speech which it’s important mind you.
Wouldn’t it make sense to maybe have the local queens entertaining instead of just dead air?
And I say this as someone in their early 40’s where regardless of standing on pavement for hours or on the grass on a slant my back is destroyed. Anyone else suffer from this?
And then the show starts, amazing, I love drag I love performance and love singing along. Then you have people who come, wait in the same spot for hours too and then when the show starts just talking talking talking. And I tell myself it’s no big deal, people have a right to talk and have fun and it’s a social event, but if you don’t like drag or music, why try to to be close to the action? Am I too much? And again I don’t say anything to people, I don’t make a scene I am tolerant of it but it’s ok to be annoyed right
I be always been thin and hairy. Never really had the drive to work out to have all the muscles and definition that our community drools over. I’ve never had that much of an issue finding sexual partners and as I gotten older I gained more confidence in the body that I have.
We’ve all seen posts where people wanna criticize these muscle gays who are hyper fixated on their appearance and that this is somehow the standard in the community. My question is to these folks, do you get sad, low self esteem, defensive when an average person rejects you and says they not into muscles? Us regular people get so upset when rejected by these types of people and wondering if the reverse it true. If so does it make you rethink how you treat people in the community who do not fit the “standard” Also do muscles automatically mean better sex? In my experience no.
Curious how people in age gap relationships handle money? I’m in my early 40’s my partner is 10 years younger and I make about $50k more than him. I love him and happy that I can provide and do nice things for him. But yeah sometimes I feel like a defacto sugar daddy that I never thought I would be. I have the means to do it and wouldn’t go in crazy debt to make him happy or anything.
When older guys are dating younger guys, is this something that you come to expect? Do you value money over a loving relationship? Let’s say you can afford to pay for their travel because you want them to experience life and can’t do it on their own, do you just accept that or do you just do things on your own or with people who can and leave your partner out of it? Or do you only date people who are on your level regardless if you love them or not but you see an “Instagram life” with them and that’s what matters most.
I’m a guy in my early 40’s, always been thin, not muscular. Don’t have a lot of definition in my body. I’ve never been one to prioritize working out. I get in a good rhythm sometimes and then break it when life happens.
Do ya’ll just not have social lives? Like summer is here. It’s a weekday, you plan to go to the gym after work, a friend asks you spontaneously to go to a movie or the beach. Do you say fuck you I have the gym or do you skip the gym?
Like yesterday I had all intention to go to the gym after work. I leave work at 5, get home at 6, my partner was going through something so I spent some time with him, then we had nothing to eat so we went to eat, then I had a bunch of work to finish, my condo gym closes at 10 pm, when do you go to the gym?
Like situations like this I’ve always just prioritized relationship building, not always saying no to people cuz I’d rather be social than do something I actually don’t like doing which is working out.
I’m just curious all you guys who are gym rats, how do you honestly balance everyday life, work, friends and working out.