r/GayMenToronto

Steamul Sauna Mississauga

Hey everyone! I’m going to Steamul sauna in Mississauga (21) for the first time to relax 6pm tonight (men’s only night) if anyone is interested to join and make a new friend hmu. Would like to have someone to chat and sweat with. Thanks

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u/TouristSad1085 — 15 hours ago

I want a friend with some age gap

Don’t know how many guys feel the same. After turning over 30s, I sometimes feel stuck in the middle and missing some sort of energy I had when I was in my 20s. Meanwhile, I’m also admiring senior guy’s life experience and wisdom from their 40-50s. What’s the best way making friends like this? I sometimes wish I could have a gay brother bonding in real life. An older bro or a younger bro to hang out with. If you feel the same, drop me a line. Downtown Toronto here. 34 bi M.

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u/Few_Bedroom_2969 — 1 day ago

tried cruising for the first time, how do u get over the rude ppl 😭 (19)

hey so i tried cruising and im not going to lie it was way too degrading (in the bad way) people just stand creepily without moving, i get shoved immediately with no response, and the worst part is the amount of time it takes

Genuinely is there any areas that are nice and alot more friendly (and to the mean guys, you werent even all that 😭😭) sorry for the rant

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u/Individual_Quit4481 — 1 day ago

Anyone going to Piknic this week? especially for Solomun or Charlotte at Stereo?

Anyone heading to Piknic this week? Mainly for Solomun or Charlotte de Witte at Stereo Montreal? Down to link up and go together. Do people usually make the trip to Montreal for these shows? Might be easier to carpool too.

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u/eyefrica — 1 day ago

Cruising at a mall?

With learning more about the gay scene up here in north York as well as with the help of the app sniffies I’ve come to understand a lot of the places to go for a hook up but one thing has always been on my mind and that’s the malls being a location. To my knowledge they aren’t but it has crossed my mind a few times so wondering if anyone who knows it better can help me figure out what malls if any have a cruising experience to them. THANK YOU ☺️

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u/thegreaterworrld — 1 day ago

Northern Bear Bash Pride 2026

Hey everybody! I'll be visiting Toronto for Pride (and Paranormal Activity at the Mirvish lol) and have bought a ticket for the Northern Bear Bash on June 27th. 31 from a city up north, so this is my first big gay event!

What should I expect? I might go to the Men's Room and buy a harness before hand to wear, do people usually wear those at these events? My city only just had their first ever kink gala haha

Thanks for answering the question! ThunderBulge on Bluesky if you want to see pics

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u/akamu54 — 2 days ago

Confidence Tips

This message is for the gays in Toronto who may run into some confidence issues for pride events next month.

Confidence is nothing more than delusion plus validation (of that delusion).

In this case, before heading to a circuit party, ask your friends to help you pretend to be blind as a bat.. Pretend to be so blind that the only thing you can see is yourself and your besties with testies.

With that delusion of blindness and indifference, the hotties will be all over you.

Sincerely, a fellow gay Torontonian working on some confidence.

u/Ok-Kick-871 — 2 days ago

In need of some help.

I don’t know where else to ask for help. I used all the resources available but I am getting to my breaking point. I left an abusive relationship where my dog was being beat up and I was being forced into some things I don’t want to disclose here. My dog is my entire world. Is my only family and we have been together since he was a puppy. I have some money to spent the night at places like S-works or SE. But my dog is not allowed there and I cannot even fathom leaving him behind…

I’ve asked for help but all the help there’s been given is only for one of us, and I cannot take it only for myself. But I am willing to let my dog have all the support he can get…

I am not even asking for a place to be cause I am tired of making that question… but what I am asking is for someone to help me look after my dog. He’s a good boy, he’s the smartest dog I’ve ever met, and I am not saying it just because he’s my dog, he truly is something special…

Community of Reddit, I could tell you my story and all the things I have faced and struggled with the last few days but at this point it all feels pointless… all I want is for my dog to have a good life and be able to make sure he’ll be happy. Is there any suggestions?

u/Used_Pirate580 — 3 days ago

Hanlan's Beach on Tuesday or Wednesday

Hi everybody,

I have the day off on Tuesday and Wednesday and am wondering if anyone would like to go to the Hanlan's point beach. If you like drinking, tequila shots, sunbathing, looking at naked men and are available on either of those two days hit me up.

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u/ConnectionFit72 — 3 days ago

Question about Black Eagle: Im very new in my journey def more of a side atm. The idea of going somewhere with a chill atmosphere where I can throat hot hung guys (I would say im a bit above average looking) reallyy turns me on.

How should I adjust/go into my first time at Eagle also what nights should I go to first to ease into it

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u/BCCbestie — 3 days ago

First time Hanlans

Hi everyone!!

I’m early 40s Asian guy, never been to Hanlans but I’ve always wanted to check it out. Ideally I don’t want to go when it’s super busy so probably not a weekend.

Would someone want to come with me? Someone who knows the area well or a newbie like me both cool!

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u/Chinglish_84 — 4 days ago

Sign the petition at savetorontoisland.com if you want to keep seeing me naked and taking creeper shots of me on the nude beach.

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u/Nepasban — 4 days ago

Can drag queens play background music when they talk?

Idk if any drag queens or Church St DJs/bar staff read this sub but I wish they would play some lower volume background music while they talk. This isn't like a theatre show where everyone came to sit and watch, people are also there to socialize and may not be paying 100% attention. If you have minutes of no music it's a real energy vacuum (even if you're actively watching) and on top of that, it makes it harder to tune out the talking to focus on your conversation. Even on the radio, they have background music when they talk, it's a very normal thing.

If you do this, you keep the vibe up and people will stay longer at the bar and chat and drink more which benefits us, it benefits the bar and hence it benefits the drag queens too.

Thanks for listening to my Ted talk.

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u/chacharina69 — 4 days ago

Hustlaball

Hey. Just curious if anyone has gone to one of the two night Hustlaball events or the Royal Stables (the Berlin version of the horse fair)? What's your feedback/experience about any of those events? Was it worth it time-wise & money-wise?

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u/BBstik — 4 days ago