r/GayMenToronto

So i really want to go. I love to be nude and to be nude in a public place sounds so hot. I am nervous about going. Looking for some tips about what the vibe is like?

Looking for a good quality and not outrageously priced barber downtown Toronto. Thanks for your suggestions !

I've seen ads for OutClose and Mingleo, and Thursday also did a gay dinner recently. If anyone has done any of these, how was it?

I’m looking for a barber in the east end. Dundas and parliament area. Tia 😃😃

I’m driving into the city this September and October, always been curious but never taken the plunge. Looking for recommendations on spots to go where I can dip in my toes and/or meet some people and possibly more.

Kind of a specific/weird one, bear with me.
When I deadlift, the bar’s set up with safety bars so I can hold it comfortably despite some limited shoulder mobility. Toward the end of my sets, my coach spots me by squeezing my lats to help stabilize me — which means he basically has to get his hands right into my armpits to do it.
I don’t mind this at all, I’m not self-conscious about it. But it’s got me wondering if he might mind, and whether switching from a tank top to a t-shirt with sleeves would make him a little more comfortable with the contact.
Anyone dealt with something like this? Would especially love to hear from coaches/trainers on whether this kind of thing ever bothers you.
(Immigrant gay guy here: would like some help figuring out if there’s any North American etiquette around this I’m failing to see)

Avoid at all costs.

I’ve seen men be assaulted inside the club and then yanked out for defending themselves. The owner purposefully oversells, and then expect attendees to put up with the constant aggravation and aggressiveness that his drunk attendees come in with.

I’ve reported assault and harassment by not only people visiting the club but also by the employees themselves. It is completely shrugged off by the owner.

Only a matter of time before the shady place is shut down for good. Horrible. A disgrace to LGBT people.

Hello! I am looking to get out more, be more social, and try some new outdoor activities. Out and Out Toronto caught my eye. I tried contacting them through their site to ask about the group's makeup, but haven't heard back.

For those who are or were members, is the club mostly for gay men or is there a solid, active presence of women/sapphics?

I don't mind if the club skews towards men but I'm kind of worried I might not fit in as a younger queer woman lol.

Thanks in advance for any insight!

EDIT: Thank you everyone! I really appreciate all of your feedback and advice.

Debating if I should go to Black Eagle, Bunker, or just stay home and save money 🤣

Him: 25-35 years old, Asian (pretty sure Chinese), short, black shorts, shirtless, wears glasses, slim, wears a small square sling black bag across his chest.

the camera/phone is in an outer pocket of the bag and is only visible when you look very attentively.

he followed me for a while, it was obvious. he would walk in front of me and slide the bag onto his back. he would also then follow me from behind and his bag would be on his chest. and once i stopped to talk with someone, he was standing nearby, with the bag on his side pointed at us

i called him out and he left like a startled cockroach.

I’ve only ever been early day and avoid weekends, but it seems whenever I might be able to go over, it’s late in the day/early evenings. So I’m curious, does everyone split after sunset? Does it turn into a dance fest (Fridays and weekends?) Am I gonna wanna get dressed when the chill sets in? Does it turn into a bacchanal? Just wondering what to expect and whether it’s worth my while.

Hi All,

The weather's too good to waste indoors. I'm heading out for a relaxed coffee + walk this afternoon to unwind before the week kicks off, and would love some company.

A bit about me: 36, researcher in life sciences at UofT, into fitness and enjoy chatting about science, religion, and life in general.

If your schedule's open and you're down to explore, hit me up! Also happy to hear suggestions, looking for a nice park or coffee spot around North York or downtown.

No agenda, just good weather, good coffee, and hopefully good conversation.

Enjoy your Sunday!

Age: 28 | Height: 1.85 m (6'1") | Target Location: Ontario (EST)
Role: Gay Top / Handler / Seeking an Ontario Pup (23–28 range)

The Situation:
I am a 28-year-old Canadian gay guy organizing my permanent relocation back home to Ontario. I am currently outside the province for a brief, temporary transition period to lock in my savings, but my concrete plans are entirely set to return home to Ontario permanently very soon. I am completely open-minded about exactly which city to settle down in (Toronto, London, or Hamilton).

The Goal:
I want to start dating and building a genuine connection right now instead of waiting. As a Top/Handler, I am looking for a serious boyfriend/pup for a dedicated relationship and gear dynamic. Let's use this remaining time away to build a rock-solid foundation through VRChat dates, gaming, and voice calls so we can jump straight into a relationship and attend local Ontario meets together the moment I arrive.

Community Question:
Are there any active regional Discord servers, VRChat groups, or digital networks that Ontario pups and handlers use to chat, game, and hang out online before meeting up in person?

Hit Me Up:
My profile is kept private for professional discretion, but my DMs are wide open. Drop your Discord tag or let's catch a private instance in VRChat to hang out!

Been to Bunker many times, ticketed or reg nights and always have good times. There's something about last night that I can't... describe it.

No personal attack to the venue or people go there whatsoever, but maybe it was the music? The moon was shining extra on us? The crowd? We all summermaxxed too much this week? Did we maximize shareholder values this quarter then we burnt out? People seem to disengage, around 2am (peak time) the capacity was 60%..?

No one seems to enjoying that much, guys crossing their arms. A handful of guys were seem to living their best life, but they're the ones at every parties anw.

me and my friends felt the same. What do you think?

It was pleasant.

😉

I’ll be going and entering my car at 4 PM.
Hit me up if you wanna meet up!

Whenever I am in a 😈 mood, everyone seems to be busy or flakey in Toronto! When I’ve just 💦💦, suddenly everyone wakes up and wants me more? I’m
Perplexed 😭 how do you combat this? Hate to say but it happens more and more often now!