Does this happen to you too?

Whenever I am in a 😈 mood, everyone seems to be busy or flakey in Toronto! When I’ve just 💦💦, suddenly everyone wakes up and wants me more? I’m
Perplexed 😭 how do you combat this? Hate to say but it happens more and more often now!

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u/LessZookeepergame228 — 6 days ago

Is there any real way to make friends in Toronto?

I’m decently attractive 41 year old POC with an ongoing aim to look fitter/muscular by 2027. I am looking to make friends who like to go dancing, to theater or movies, or maybe bike/hike. Above all ones who can also share honestly about life, trial/troubles, opinions and maybe just listen (I’m a good listener too). I’ve tried run clubs and other meetups but end up meeting the same people that don’t vibe with me. Def doing something wrong there.

I’m on all the apps but don’t expect to make friends there. Speaking from experience.

Any sane advice? Or anyone looking for a platonic friendship?

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u/LessZookeepergame228 — 1 month ago

What’s the expectation for single guys in circuit parties? Esp Prism or Yum Yum? Doesn’t anyone go to just dance?

I’m a new DJ and new to the circuit scene. Been going for a year. I seldom do 💊, mostly just ☘️ or 🍄 and I love the music. I have gone with dates or friends but they usually leave me for a hookup or to dance with some new thing. No issue by me - I’m a good wingman. But if I just wanna dance with someone, it usually gets handsy and into a makeout and then onto next. Not slut shaming, but does anyone believe in sticking to chemistry or am I delusional in 2026? Yes I’m 41 and have lived through a whole era of regular club scene. And no it wasn’t this bad back in the day 😅

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u/LessZookeepergame228 — 1 month ago