u/Ok-Mortgage542

OC- Any Suggestions on how to move forward with this situation.

(Parking/Nuisance Related)

Somewhere in Uttarakhand. Own house(15+ years) in a gali/mohalla type setting, not a society or something. Single occupant 33M.

There's a person in our locality who does tantric related work. Own house, living here for 6+years but started this thing recently.

For this, they've made a space in their house and calls it temple though structurally it's not(no kalash and dwaj).

The thing is, every Saturday and Tuesday, people come with their problem and park the vehicle(mostly car) outside our house. Their house is small and they've space to park only 1 two-wheeler.

I know the space outside my house is not mine, but this business is causing nuisance in following ways-

  1. We can't park our vehicle outside of our own just for a moment, not to mention when guest or someone comes in our house they have to park here and there. "It's a public road, not someone's personal/commercial parking spot".

  2. The municipality can't clean outside our house because of cars.

  3. Sometimes, part of the vehicle comes(extends) in front of our gate.

  4. Our house is at some elevation from the road. Since cars are parked just next to our maingate, we face trouble taking out our two-wheeler.

If I've a emergency, this would cause real inconvenience.

  1. This thing temple or whatever is in the residential area and not registered.

  2. A while back, i had an argument with them regarding something and i pointed out that they blast bhajan day and night. It has now come to morning and evening for a small duration.

  3. Sometimes, when the driver opens the door, it touch our boundary: the paint and plaster have been slightly, but visibly, damaged due to this. In addition to this, a while back, this same family did put their construction material outside our house that has also damaged our wall.

This person's family member is in police(two star).

**For solution, I was suggested to talk to them(did it twice) and ask them nicely. There are the type who will argue at anything just to satisfy their ego.**

**Secondly, I've been told that i may get in a mess because family member is in police like fake FIRs, unnecessary bothering, etc.**

From my point of view,

\-The road belongs to public(the road width is such that if two cars are facing opposite, one has to stop to let other pass).

\- It isn't someone's personal or customer parking spot. Decent and respectable people mostly park their personal vehicle outside their own house(observed this in my city) and not cause any inconvenienceto others, but if someone's house is small and they are looking to park here and there, then that's a different thing.

\-Such kind of work is done in a remote area where there's less crowd.

\-I live alone maybe that's why they are bothering me by doing such things.

**- I can also park my vehicle outside their but it is very small, so there's difference in level also.**

I'm considering filing an application in sp office. I've pics of these frequent nonsense.

Suggestions, opinions, and advice regarding this would be much appreciated.

Thanks.

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u/Ok-Mortgage542 — 1 day ago

Any Suggestions on how to move forward with this situation.

(Parking/Nuisance related)

Somewhere in Uttarakhand. Own house(15+ years) in a gali/mohalla type setting, not a society or something. Single occupant 33M.

There's a person in our locality who does tantric related work. Own house, living here for 6+years but started this thing recently.

For this, they've made a space in their house and calls it temple though structurally it's not(no kalash and dwaj).

The thing is, every Saturday and Tuesday, people come with their problem and park the vehicle(mostly car) outside our house. Their house is small and they've space to park only 1 two-wheeler.

I know the space outside my house is not mine, but this business is causing nuisance in following ways-

  1. We can't park our vehicle outside of our own just for a moment, not to mention when guest or someone comes in our house they have to park here and there. "It's a public road, not someone's personal/commercial parking spot".

  2. The municipality can't clean outside our house because of cars.

  3. Sometimes, part of the vehicle comes(extends) in front of our gate.

  4. Our house is at some elevation from the road. Since cars are parked just next to our maingate, we face trouble taking out our two-wheeler.

If I've a emergency, this would cause real inconvenience.

  1. This thing temple or whatever is in the residential area and not registered.

  2. A while back, i had an argument with them regarding something and i pointed out that they blast bhajan day and night. It has now come to morning and evening for a small duration.

  3. Sometimes, when the driver opens the door, it touch our boundary: the paint and plaster have been slightly, but visibly, damaged due to this. In addition to this, a while back, this same family did put their construction material outside our house that has also damaged our wall.

This person's family member is in police(two star).

For solution, I was suggested to talk to them(did it twice) and ask them nicely. There are the type who will argue at anything just to satisfy their ego.

Secondly, I've been told that i may get in a mess because family member is in police like fake FIRs, unnecessary bothering, etc.

From my point of view,

-The road belongs to public(the road width is such that if two cars are facing opposite, one has to stop to let other pass).

- It isn't someone's personal or customer parking spot. Decent and respectable people mostly park their personal vehicle outside their own house(observed this in my city) and not cause any inconvenienceto others, but if someone's house is small and they are looking to park here and there, then that's a different thing.

-Such kind of work is done in a remote area where there's less crowd.

-I live alone maybe that's why they are bothering me by doing such things.

- I can also park my vehicle outside their but it is very small, so there's difference in level also.

I'm considering filing an application in sp office. I've pics of these frequent nonsense.

Suggestions, opinions, and advice regarding this would be much appreciated.

Thanks.

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u/Ok-Mortgage542 — 2 days ago