I 20f am sexually unsatisfied with my 23m bf and need advice
I 20F have the perfect boyfriend. He is attractive, attentive, caring, gives me so much of his time and always does anything he can to make me happy, and it means so much to me. He works a 9-5 and I see him usually 3-4 times a week we play games together and he is the sweetest partner I could ask for, but there is one issue. I am very sexually unsatisfied. I am someone who I would say has a high sex drive and am into some very nonvanilla stuff. My boyfriend on the other hand is a little more vanilla and the thing he finds the most kinky is just 3somes and that’s fun sometimes but not really a big thing of mine, I would honestly like to do bdsm play in and a little outside the bedroom. He tells me all the time that he wants to try more kinky things and he’s interested in that but it just doesn’t ever happen. It is just like the desire doesn’t come naturally to him maybe. I have had talks with him before about switching things up trying more kinky things but we never really try much and it is also a turn off for my that he doesn’t have that natural desire to do those things to me. I feel really bad for getting sexually frustrated over this. We have sex about once a week, sometimes twice, but it is always one round lasting about 15 minutes sometimes there is a little face slapping or choking most kinky we have got is just rough sex using a vib. I wish we could do more than one round and try some new things but idk what to say to him. I don’t know if I should have a serious conversation about this I don’t know if this is something that can be changed or how I would go about helping him to feel more dominant, but it feels forced if i just teach him and he doesn’t it because it’s not like something he naturally desires to do i guess? I love him so much I don’t want our relationship to end over my carnal desires, I can’t imagine a man treating me as good as he does in our relationship, but i feel like i’m going kinda crazy from my repressed desires.
edit: I worded some of this kinda bad because I’m tired and in a bad mood but yea