Why am i invisible to men ?
(29F) I have never been approached by a man and idk why.
All girls around me are getting approached, if not by a stranger asking for their number or flirting or whatever, and I am just… invisible.
Now people might say “oh you’re intimidating” or “you don’t give chances” or whatever, but nooo that’s not it. I’m normal just like them and open, but why not even once in 29 years of life? Not a single guy? I mean I could understand it if it happened once or twice and I just wasn’t interested or something, but literally never.
I’m not intimidating, I am not fucking Monica Bellucci, and sometimes people even tell me “you should make the first move toward guys” ok but again, why on earth does it feel like all women in the world get to be the ones being approached and I’m the one who has to go ask people to date me? I’m not less intelligent, not less beautiful, not less educated, not less funny… it just makes me wonder what is so wrong with me that I’m not even “loveable” in that way.
Like I can get it if it happened once or twice in my life and I wasn’t attracted or whatever, but it has literally never happened. It’s crazy.