AITAH: AITAH for distancing myself from my friend?
Last year somewhere around Christmas I think my best friend (we’ll call her Jane) and my guy friend (we’ll call him Frank) started dating. Me and my ex kind of egged them on to be together bc they both kind of liked eachother.
February me and my ex broke up and then a week or two they broke up. Jane was devastated and would come to me even though I was going through the worst. Me and ex were together for 3.5 year and they were only together for a few months. To this day she still is obsessing over him and won’t leave him alone. She keeps calling him asking him to come over, checks his location and when she sees he’s not at home she freaks out.
He was at his friends house last night who just so happens to be a girl and she freaked out even though it was just a grad party. She acts like they’re still dating. I can’t be fully mad at her bc he does play with her feelings like they’ll send spicy pics to each other and dirty talk every now and then but he doesn’t show interest in her unless it’s 12:30 at night.
I can’t take it anymore. Every sentence is about him. I had a pretty traumatic break up with my ex like cheating was involved and lying as well and I feel like she tries to fit her experience into mine even though none of those things happened to her.
I cant name a time she even tried to care for me when I went through that but I’ve been there for her many times with this. Me, her mom, and her sister were talking and think the same thing. It’s time to move on and she won’t accept that.