
Pediatric teeth extraction
Hello everyone.
My child is 3.5 years old and has significant dental cavities. I believe part of the cause may have been prolonged milk bottle feeding, which we have since tried to limit.
Recently, she has been experiencing dental pain, and we discovered she has about three abscesses in her upper gums. She is currently on antibiotics.
We have consulted a few dentists, and they are recommending either IV sedation in-office or general anesthesia in a hospital setting because she is very young and not cooperative during exams (nitrous won't help her since she may not likely follow directions).
I understand that anesthesia is generally considered safe nowadays compared to the past, but I am still very worried given her age. In addition, the cost is a minor concern because the anesthesia portion is not covered by insurance and must be paid out of pocket (the anesthesia department quoted 60 min is around $1500-2000).
One dentist mentioned that she may need at least 10 teeth extracted. I am very concerned about how this will affect her eating, speech, and overall oral development afterward. I also wonder whether she will need spacers or any other dental appliances to maintain spacing and alignment.
She is already a very picky eater, and I worry that this experience may make feeding even more difficult for her.
I am also unsure if removing this many teeth at her age is common practice or truly necessary. Some family members suggest leaving the teeth alone and waiting for them to naturally fall out, but I am worried the abscess infection could spread if not treated properly.
Thank you sincerely.