u/Ok_Afternoon_8983

Hallo zusammen, ich wollte fragen ob jemand in Erlangen wohnt, studiert und Wohngeld bekommt.
Hintergrund ist, dass ich nach Erlangen ziehen will und keinen Anspruch auf Bafög habe, da ich außerhalb der Regelstudienzeit bin. Ich bin Werkstudent und bekomme 1.100€ netto. Ansonsten bekomme ich kein Geld.
Ich hätte gerne eine Wohnung für mich selber, also keine WG.
Die Mieten sind in Erlangen obviously sehr hoch und da wollte ich fragen, ob jemand hier Wohngeld bekommt, wie der Prozess so war, ob das Geld ausreicht etc.

Danke im Voraus :)

My boyfriend (m/26) and I (f/23) have been together for almost two years now. I still live with my parents and he lives with some flatmates in another town one hour away from me. The town that he lives in is also the town where I study and work, so I am there most of the time anyway.
He's been living there for like 3 years now. I've only ever lived with my parents and always wanted to move out by myself when I got the chance and enough money.
Our mutual friends, who are a couple and have been together less than a year (so far less than we have) have decided to live together and found a nice little flat for themselves.
I am currently on the search for a flat for myself in my boyfriend's town because I like everything about it and I have finally saved up enough money and also because I just wanna live closer to him.
Now, my boyfriend said that he's jealous of our friends and the fact that they're moving in together.
Way before our friends even became a couple, I made it very clear that before him and I move in together, I wanted to live alone for a year. I just wanted to have my own private space that I can retreat to and just be by myself. I just want to have something that's my own.
Another reason I don't wanna move in with my boyfriend right now is also because I feel like him and I have different ideas of how to keep a clean household. I'm saying this because whenever I'm in his room, there's always plates, laundry, trash etc. This is something that I honestly hear from a lot of other hetero couples as well and I honestly just don't know how to fix. I should also add that my boyfriend has some very depressive episodes and some other mental health issues, that I feel like really play into this. I don't wanna clean his room for him obviously. I don't wanna act as his mom or a housemaid or something. I just don't know how to bring this up without making him feel bad.
At the same time, I honestly fantasize a lot about us moving in together. So it's not something that I never want to do. I just feel like there's some things that need to change in the way my boyfriend is "running his household"
I honestly feel pretty upset about the fact that he's so jealous over that since I literally told him that I wanna live alone first and he was completely fine and supportive of it when I first told him.
Anybody else in a similar situation? What should I do?
TL;DR I don't want to live with my boyfriend of two years right now