AIO over this Snapchat “exchange”?
AIO over this snapchat or is it a glitch of some sort?
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Context: partner doesn’t use Snapchat socially, it’s just sort of on his phone. He likes to go through his memories on there from time to time and uses it to take photos in work etc.
Was briefly using partners phone to send some photos over to myself on Snapchat. When I pressed the search bar, the recents pop up underneath showed a girls account that I know isn’t a friend of his, if they were friends it wouldn’t have even caught my attention, his female friends (loose use of friends as he will only say hello to people in the street, he hardly ever messages anyone) have always been lovely and friendly with me as well as him so there’s never been an issue.
I pressed on her account and saw there are messages from years ago, before we began our relationship properly, they were spicy exchanges that she saved, only like two small flirty conversations, I couldn’t see anymore than that. But the part that got me was the expiration on messages being updated “today” which was the night before last.
Now, when scrolling through the chat page, I couldn’t see her account there, anyone like 3/4 down from the top are messages from at least 5/6 months ago, so if they had conversed, surely her account would be at the top?
Looking online I saw that either him or her would have had to change it manually for that to happen, I did see some things about Snapchat itself having bugs that cause all chats to be reset to the 24hr default, but it seemed to be only the chat with her that did it.
He is genuinely sweet and hasn’t given me a reason to be suspicious of him, I’m thinking it’s a glitch of some sort but I can’t stop thinking about the what ifs, I’ve known him for at least a decade (been together officially for nearly 3 years) so I feel like I know him pretty well at this point but you can never be 100% sure.
I’m just looking for some outside perspectives before I drive myself crazy ruminating over it.
Should I be concerned?