u/Ok_Doughnut564

Mounting bicycle

Mounting bicycle

Is this going to get me in trouble or is this ok? I desperately need a way to get around and exercise out here and finally got a bicycle on vacation at home but am not sure if this is ok. The air lines are free moving and not getting pinched or moved by the bike. Bike is mounted with multiple bungees and a ratchet strap- takes a lot of force to try and move it around so will be secure while driving. Thanks drivers🚛💨

u/Ok_Doughnut564 — 18 hours ago

I have been in a situationship with someone since January. Things started quickly, two women of course, and there was a sudden shift where she stopped calling as often and texts were being left longer and longer. I called it out pretty early on because I was like what is happening. It triggered my anxious attachment so incredibly hard and I kept losing myself along the way trying to get her to show up, even to just tell me if she was having a busy day. She disappeared every time the conversations reached any depth and I would continue to ask because it just made me feel abandoned emotionally more and more. I know that I made this get to the point where I suffocated her after being stonewalled so often and so much. She is always going through a lot but doesnt realize that I am too. So there was never a good time to have a conversation but she just always had an excuse. I finally, over the past few days, was like I cannot do this anymore. She is dealing with a lot and I truly understand how overwhelming and stressful grief and shit can be but she just has left me hanging for days on end so many times and it has ripped me apart trying to over explain and get her to show up for bare minimum things. I feel insane because today I was like this is it this is the end and she just will not respond. Idk why it is a surprise to me but it is making me feel insane and I can't stop messaging her to just close this out with me. I am so shattered and just like holy hell why do people do this? I did everything I could

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u/Ok_Doughnut564 — 4 months ago