u/Ok_Engineering6272

I might be posting in the wrong group, but looking for feedback/reality of feasibility. We're trying to design a headstone for a family member. Cemetery says no vases attached to headstone as it'll go beyond accepted measurements.

I want a vase of some sort. Its my one want for it. I hate laying flowers on the ground when visiting graves and no in ground vase is allowed.

If granite is used could a "vase" be drilled into the top of the stone with a small drainage hole in back at the base of the "vase" while still holding the integrity of the stone? Is there a spot that'll prevent weakening the stone, like center vs to the left or right? (It's not something I've seen and assume there's a reason for it, but hoping its doable.)

I attached a basic drawing, of what I'm thinking.

Growing tiny tim tomatoes and the title pretty much sums it up. They've been green about 4 weeks, light green maybe 2 or more depending on the bunch. At what point do I worry or is this normal?

I'm growing strawberries, at least trying to and sweet baby watermelon. Have a hydroponic set up w/2 tiers. All planted 3/19/26 with strawberries and watermelon in the same tank and tomatoes in the other.

Need help/advice, first time doing hydroponics. The ph has been good, I test it and adjust if needed every couple days and when adding water. Using standard AB nutrients. Somewhat recently added an aerator to bottom tank.

Tiny tim tomatoes on the top shelf are already flowering and growing tomatoes. (They're not the issue)

The Strawberry plants aren't growing, like they sprouted and are just hanging out now.

-Could they be duds?

-Should I not have planted these two fruit in the same tank?

The watermelon is growing like crazy and staying green after adding aerator to tank.

-Should I trim off the dead leaves from pre-aerator if the stems are still green?

- If so where do I trim them? (As it's finally growing im nervous to mess with it) Do I trim right under dead leaves or where it connects to vine?

-Are the tangles off the vine supposed to curl up tight like a spring or into a ball?

Should I be using different nutrients? If you have a recommendation let me know.

Please help!