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Someone said you can't call your genitals male without bottom surgery

I saw a post where someone said you can't call your genitals male without bottom surgery. Seriously? How can you willingly call your parts female if you consider yourself a man? By the same logic, not a single trans man can be considered a real man, because he still has female chromosomes.

Overall, this post really affected me in a bad way. I've been used to see my genitals as a male ones my whole life, simply because I'm a man and they're part of my male body. I don't experience bottom dysphoria, I'm happy with what I have right now. It works and brings me pleasure when needed, but I start to experience severe dysphoria if someone tries to force me to call my parts female. Moreover, this is literally not true. T changes the tissues (bottom growth) and how the organ itself functions, so it's stupid to still consider it female.

Sometimes I feel guilty for having all types of dysphoria except bottom dysphoria. I don't plan on having bottom surgery in the future (not that I even have the opportunity).

What do you guys think about this? How do you feel about those who don't have bottom dysphoria but still have overall body/voice/social dysphoria? What do you think is the correct name for your parts?

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u/Ok_Flight_8094 — 17 hours ago