u/Ok_Jury_9903

Partners for 40 years he has a younger female friend who constantly messages him and so does he, cute hows your day stuff and mutual support, I cant cope with it he keeps it underground, hides it from me. I want to keep checking his phone, its been going on for 2 years I have said I dont like it it hurts me, he says if I say stop he will break contact. I do not want to be that jealous woman. But he doesnt stop when he knows how it derails me. She always asking him to do jobs for her, he says hes helping her she has no friends, no money, she is only a couple of doors down our street. Help me see sense so this stops destroying me.