u/Ok_Mulberry2832

Hi guys, have a quick question wanted to take people’s opinions on what i should do. I have a nanny taking care of my 5 months old baby. I was so impressed at the beginning, however, in her first month, she took a random sick day midweek. Told me the next week that she wanted to take another sick day but pushed through. The following week i gave her a week off for eid holidays. Then later, a family member passed away which she couldnt come. Then the week after she asked me for a day off for her mental wellbeing. I am a working mama whos freshly postpartum, just coming back to office. I found that very annoying, i told her that she needs to be more reliable really nicely and if i did this at my job id get fired. I cannot keep not showing up after my days off. She got annoyed and told me she doesnt want to continue working anymore. The next day i told her im looking for a replacement, she came crying telling me she cannot leave my baby & she will be more reliable. A week has passed ever since. But i feel like i dont want to keep her anymore. I already feel some attitude when asking her to do specific things for my baby and the house. Something tells me i need to find a replacement, & sometimes i think let me see when will she not show up again & then fire her. What do you guys think?

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