Anyone else have trouble kissing their partner after they've just ate?
This is becoming a problem in my relationship, we've been together 8 months. My girlfriend knew I had ARFID from the get go, but now it's becoming a problem for her. In this case it's when it comes to kissing. I just can't kiss her after she's ate unless she uses a mint and wipes her mouth etc. Depending on what she's ate it will be an all day thing.
She'll eat the worst shit for me like a tuna melt, meatball sub, or garlic bread and then expect me to kiss or make out with her. Then if I ask her to use a mint or wash her mouth or whatever she gets pissy about it. I've explained to her that it's not her and that it's the food, but she says I make her feel unattractive when I ask her to do that.
I fully understand where she's coming from but I just can't help it. I feel like this is going to be a relationship ender even though I don't want it to come to that. Any advice here?