I was gifted a baby CARRIER at my baby shower and I asked my doctor when I could use it and he said not until the baby has control of their neck (not a 2 month old).
Also, safe baby wearing at that age you have to be able to kiss their head. Their baby is WAY too low!
As soon as I found I was pregnant, it was like a flip switched, and I became so depressed. I’ve always struggled with my mental health, but something about being pregnant made it 100x worse. Maybe it was the fact I felt like nobody really checked in on me? My pregnancy was also very hard physically. Some days I could barely walk and once I hit 22 weeks I had to use a chair to pray. Some days I would have to stay in bed the whole entire day because of how bad it was. I lost almost all my friends and the ones I do have left never talk to me since having my baby...
I gave birth a few months ago, and I still feel like this except 100x worse now. My birth experience was so difficult and painful, especially the postpartum part. For the first two weeks I couldn’t even sit properly. My mom kept pushing me to try to sit “normally” when I knew that I couldn't, and why try if it’s going to hurt so badly? I faced so many complaints for not nursing my baby as well. When it’s my decision and up to me and I genuinely did try. It also doesn’t help that I do 100% of the housework and 90% of taking care of the baby. My husband said I should get a therapist but I don’t even want to at this point.
I 21 (f) got married to my husband (22M) when I was 17 years old and he was 18. At the time we only knew each other for a few months before getting married. We made a decision to just do the nikkah/kitb kitab and then decide later if we wanted a wedding.
I’m a girl so of course I’ve always dreamed of being a bride and having my special day, however that day never came.
A couple years ago, my mother in law decided to randomly surprise me with a “small” “wedding” it was in the house of this girl that basically ghosted me after hanging out with me once. His mom and her mom know each other basically.
Since it was a complete surprise I didn’t have any time to prep for it whatsoever and genuinely hated how I looked in post of the pictures. I also didn’t even have the chance to invite anybody since i was told 5 days before it.
Since this we’ve now had a baby so I’m just wondering is it completely pointless to have a wedding now. Everytime I go to a wedding I just can’t help but wish that I got that experience of being a bride and hope that I get to one day.
Whenever I bring it up to my husband he doesn’t really say too much about it but I don’t think he really realizes how badly I want a wedding.