Holding the AP accountable
If you had the chance to hold the ap accountable, would you?
Long story short. AP is in the medical field. She inserted herself into our lives many different ways. One of the ways she inserted herself was providing medical advice regarding my 2 small children. Also withholding from me a developmental disability she observed for one of my young children during a family camping trip. If you are wondering if my WH had his AP and his wife together with his children and the AP’s older children, you would be correct.
AP told my husband about what she observed after the trip and completely bypassed me. My husband was still in denial about it, so why would he tell me. Out of the goodness of her heart, she did send books to our house. She was just trying to help, in her words. Her decision to protect her relationship with my husband, cost my child 1.5 years of therapy. Early intervention for this developmental disability is incredibly important. If she would have come to me, I would have got my child assessed, and had him therapy asap.
As a medical professional she is professionally and ethically required to have come to me, the primary caretaker and tell me what she observed. She also has the obligation to divulge any conflicts of interests she had regarding my family.
My question: Should I report this to the licensing board? I am fairly certain she will lose her license and this her job. I also have what she did in texts she wrote to me. It is in her words.
I love my husband very much and he just wants to stay as far away from her as possible. He does not want this to cause any trouble for us. She is also married.
Thanks for all the advice in advance.