Dating advice
Hola hola ana jdida fhad community and i dont really know how reddit works tbh but i need advice from an outsiders perspective
Saraha tgal i never dated just for fun even tho im 18 ive always grown to get attached or have strong feelings for the other person, my last relationship was a really messy one and it ended in a really messy way m3a sala lbac, he was manipulative and i dont even think he really loved me, he just enjoyed wtvr we did and it was so toxic because hed start asking me change things about my physical appearance, he would tell me that im not lovable and then he ended things with me 2 weeks after lbac over texts and told me that its never gonna work out between us
Whatever after that i decided i would stop dating en general, maybe id talk to boys here and there but nothing serious because he made me feel so bad lwa7ed daraja makatkhylch, he would text me pour faire des bails and then ghost me completely o ana kil7mara knt kanmchi 3ndo hoping were working on our relationship, bref comprehensible 3lach jai decide no dating
Octobre new school, new people around me, new everything, mohim i meet a girl super nice welat khti literally, i talked to some guys but jai pas du tt kiffe dik hdra, they would act jealous et encore pire b7al ila youre supposed to give them something ma3lina, o wahed nhar kan wa7ed levent fschool o kano les membres du club kidoro 3la les classes et tt ca, bref ana dak nhar cheft wa7ed dri, d7ouki, he seemed nice tbh, kohim i was attracted to him, apres kant sahbti bghat more info on the event mchat swlato howa o sahbo, im not someone who talks a lot so i was quiet o 7chemt bezaf i didnt even look their way, mohim apres dart liya frassi gelt hada kber mni o ana premiere annee i dont wanna be that kind of girl o he prob sees me as a child skippit o zmit fomi, ma3lina moraha kan levent o by that time howa o sahbti wlaw friends kidwiw et tt kna w9fna kolna o b9ina kandwiw (b9aw kidwiw ana rah kanmreg ndwi m3a chi 7ed makan3rfoch), days later sahbti galt liya he likes you glt liha i dont mind talking yo him wlkn wessli lih rah im not into dating at all (ana rah tremti katssfe9), mohimmm dwit bezaf daba aresume likom.
Dwina i liked him more and more chre7t liha 3lach i didnt wanna date anymore, he understood o gal liya safi ana m3ak talnhar tbghi, he would pay for things i wanted ola hed gift me jewelry even tho i insist on not taking his money (7it trebit 3la nkhless dakchi dyali i mankhli ola n3wel 3la ta7ed), 2 months later we started dating because he was thoughtful and he really proved to me thats he was waiting for me only, he was also loyal, charming, wouldn’t hide the fact that he liked me from other people and acted as if he was in a committed relationship and i feel like we had so many really deep talks and honestly te7t fih ti7a dlklab, later on i guess we really fell in love o turns out khalti kant kat3ref mamah lah irhemha, to me this was a sign.
Daba we’ve been together for 8 months and we dont have a lot of arguments, its really rare but with summer and with me having strict parents i cant see him all the time, whenever i can go out he would come even if its just to see me for 10 mins, so we mostly text or call (makandwzoch nhar kolooo on the phone just a few texts and talking on the phone when we can is enough to both of us)
The thing is before he got with me he would go out a lot, party and girls all the time, getting drunk not going back home…, so when we got yogether i didnt wanna take away that freedom from him because to me dating is not about controlling that person and changing them, wlkn i talked to him glt lih ana idc if you go out with your friends or party ghir 7tarmni o ra3i liya, walakin m3a had sayf o had sehd its been weird 7it i wake up early he doesnt, i have thing to do fnhar ola kankhrej lb7er ola piscine howa kikoun na3ess ola mteki, fl3chiya mli kandkhol howa kikoun kidir chi 7aja ya kharej ya la3eb idk, so we spend less time talking wakha hes so loving o ki7awel i3tini we9ti ma 2amkan walakin i hate when he goes out at night to party, kan7ess anaho atra chi 7aja wakha i believe he wouldnt cheat on me walakin another part is basically screaming at me to wake up and not trust him and i think its mostly because of my ex relationship and my trust issues, and ive started acting cold towards him, kant9le9 3lih mli kirje3 7it he doenst text me while hes out mohim ana kanzid fih mn lkher wlkn wakha haka rah kant9ress gha dak lfeeling kankebro
Maartftch wch ana bdit kanfrbel o wch ana fiya lmochkil ola its normal to feel things like this o maarftch if i should talk to him about it ola la nskot 7it ghanban lih mssetya o berhoucha bagha t7kem fih
What do you guys think ?
Sm7o liya la dwit bezaf 🥰🙏😛